Thoughts, Words & Devotions by Tim Burt

April 26, 2007

Don’t Run From Conflict

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Fresh Manna© by Pastor Tim Burt
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Acts 24:16 “And herein do I exercise myself, to have always a conscience void of offence toward God, and toward men”

I read a story in the newspaper that said this: “Sixteen years after a jury called him a killer and a judge sentenced him to prison, a former Tustin Marine corporal stood in a Santa Ana courtroom Thursday and wept as he was declared a free and innocent man. Apologizing for a justice system’s grave error, Orange County Superior Court Judge Robert Fitzgerald told 38-year-old Kevin Lee Green that he hoped the second half of his life would somehow make up for the lost time.”

Another story reported this: “The day he was wrongly convicted of rape, Calvin Johnson Jr. stood firm and told the judge, “As God is my witness, you’ve got the wrong man.” He served 16 years of a life sentence, believing one day he’d be exonerated. Johnson was freed Tuesday after DNA evidence proved he could not have committed the crime. “I don’t see any reason to harbor any bitterness,” Johnson said as he left the Clayton County courthouse with his father and two sisters. “If you hold something like that inside you, it just destroys you. Now it’s time for me to go on with my life.”

These real life stories remind us of the story we know of Joseph and the wrongful accusations against him by a woman that lusted after him and then falsely accused him. It resulted in his sitting in prison for many years. Like the men in the newspaper articles, Joseph kept his heart right and the Lord was able to work in His life and bring him out. Jesus was also falsely accused over and over again. It was false accusation that led to His walk to Calvary to die for our sins.

Prov 6:19 says that something God hates is this: “… a false witness who pours out lies and a man who stirs up dissension among brothers.” I will give you a simple example of this. When I’ve had people in my office for counseling, a majority are there because of getting offended at someone else. “So and so said this; so and so did that.” “This is going on in my life and it’s so and so’s fault!” The truth is, for every person’s story of being hurt; there is another side and another perspective. People hurt each other and don’t work through it. Most people are horrible at working through conflict. Even though the Bible instructs us to go back to those that “we have ought with,” very few do. Most hold it inside and let it turn to bitterness and deep hurt. Then most go around painting verbal pictures of “what so and so did.” When this happens, that person could be acting as a false witness or shedding innocent blood. They could be getting someone in trouble or decreasing their good name by the words of hurt that they speak against the one they were hurt by. People do this! They want to justify themselves at someone’s expense.

We want to make sure we are not unawarely giving place to this in our lives. It will harden our heart in unforgiveness and bitterness. When this happens, we shut out God’s presence and the power that is available to help and heal us. We become callous and insensitive to the presence, leadings and promptings of God’s Spirit. Staying sensitive to God and His presence in our lives is no insignificant matter. Therefore we have to put away the things that harden our hearts – the things that God hates.

I don’t know of any greater weakness overall in the body of Christ than the ignorance of or unwillingness to work through relational conflict. In the story of Joseph, his brothers were just plain mean and jealous. There won’t be any great relational resolution with people that are wicked, hard, or mean. But, in the body of Christ, that should not be so.

We have a church of ten thousand people. Needless to say, I am busy on the weekends. I am a very smiley person by nature but, sometimes in church, when I am helping someone or taking care of a situation, I’m on a mission. On at least thee occasions over the 25 years at church, I’ve had people say to me, “Pastor, you are mad at me aren’t you?” Being shocked to hear that I asked them why in the world they’d think such a thing. “Because you walked by me without smiling or saying hi.” “When did I do that?” “Two years ago.” I was always shocked but apologetic. I assured them I wasn’t mad at them and most likely didn’t even notice them as I was helping someone else.

The question is this, are they now going to be able to go back and tell all those people over the past two years that they had told I was rude to them that it was a misunderstanding based on their wrong perspective? I don’t think so. We all do this. Shedding innocent blood doesn’t have to mean murder. It can be damaging someone’s name or reputation because of a hurtful perspective that could be resolved if we acted as Christians, simply confronted it, and tried to work it out. It is the God thing to do.

When we tear people down the Holy Spirit is trying to get us to stop. We can sense it if we are sensitive to Him. If getting offended and talking to others about it is the norm, we’ll be used to overriding God’s still small voice. We then harden our heart and lose our ability to sense the presence that brings, power, life, direction, healing, miracles, His love and the anointing to minister to others. The thought of being cut off from all that God has for me gives me the chills.

Today’s Fresh Manna says that Paul did what we must to – refuse to remain offended. “And herein do I exercise myself, to have always a conscience void of offence toward God, and toward men.”

In His Love,
Pastor Tim Burt
http://www.freshmanna.org

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April 25, 2007

Protecting Relationships is Godly Wisdom

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Prov 24:3-6 “By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures. A wise man has great power, and a man of knowledge increases strength; for waging war you need guidance, and for victory many advisers.”

The Bible teaches us that we should not be ignorant of the devils devices. Satan has strategies. One of them is get us mad, upset, and angry at our loved ones – at those closest to us. If he succeeds, we create a valley between and lose the people that might be most naturally bonded to us and who are often there for us in times of need or crisis. Satan has always worked to divide people from each other. Eph 6:12 says it like this: “For we are not fighting against people made of flesh and blood, but against persons without bodies–the evil rulers of the unseen world, those mighty satanic beings and great satanic evil princes of darkness who rule this world; and against huge numbers of wicked spirits in the spirit world.” Satan is a liar and he is the one that works toward dividing homes, family, friends, and whoever. He doesn’t discriminate.

The devil knows his destiny is Hell and he is determined to take as many people there as possible. Do you think that’s a fairy tale? It’s not. The devil knows he is doomed. He has feared it since the moment he tried to usurp God’s authority in Heaven. That’s why when Jesus walked the earth; the devils and demons were petrified. Let me show you quickly in Mat 8:28-29. “When Jesus arrived at the other side in the region of the Gadarenes, two demon-possessed men coming from the tombs met him. They were so violent that no one could pass that way. ‘What do you want with us, Son of God?” they shouted. “Have you come here to torture us before the appointed time?’” Can you see that they mentioned an appointed time that they so greatly fear? You see Satan and his followers know there is a day coming. We see this again in Rev 12:12”… But woe to the earth and the sea, because the devil has gone down to you! He is filled with fury, because he knows that his time is short.”

As a believer of Jesus Christ, we do not worry about the devil. We take authority over him. Using the name of Jesus, we cast him out of every situation where we see he has reared his ugly head. I am telling you all this not as a lesson in spiritual authority but to help you become aware of his strategies so that when you see them at work, instead of succumbing to them, you’ll ask the Holy Spirit to help you walk in and speak the truth in love! When we can see that the devil is trying to divide us off from people that should be endeared to our hearts, we can stop a potential fight or offense in our heart recognizing that he just wants to divide us all off from each other. If we will quit expecting people to be perfect or what we want them to be and instead appreciate them for who they are, life will be better and greater love will flow. If we look for the good in them, if we will see it and say it and edify them instead of fighting them, we will grow together in love.

Whether communicating with your spouse or your teenager, or a relative or coworker, there can be countless opportunities for even the best of communicators to lose their patience and end up in conflict. Learning how to effectively handle them is more than just technique. The Holy Spirit can help you identify and understand “your irritation buttons.” When you know and are aware of them , He’ll then help you keep control if you seek the Lord at each instance and leaning on the Holy Spirit to teach and strengthen you to try to communicate in the right way. He’ll help you see things from their perspective. He’ll help you have mercy. He’ll even help you confidently speak kindly when someone is treating you like a total jerk – if you will lean on Him in those times. I know this can sound impossible but I promise you it’s not. Eventually you will get better at it. In time with the Lord’s help you can become great at it.

Most every kind of conflict can be resolved amicably when people learn how to speak truth kindly. Unfortunately, what most people do is avoid direct conflict because they are poor at keeping their emotions in check as they talk through it. They just walk away mad from each other. Then they build negative momentum by talking bad about the other person while justifying their position.

People have no idea how their flippant negative words spoken against the very ones they love hurt their own heart. When you do that, in your heart you devalue someone who could really be very precious to you if things were resolved in the right way. Over time, your spoken negative words cause you to lose your emotional love and caring heart. Learning how to work through conflict will help you to stop carrying around unresolved issues and help you quit speaking those negative words you’ll end up regretting.

As today’s Fresh Manna says, people were meant to be rare and beautiful treasures that fill the rooms of our (life) house. We’ve all been tainted by the influences of Satan in this earth and consequently, we have our little (or big) quirks. We must overlook theirs and hopefully they will overlook ours. Then God by His Holy Spirit will work to restore us to paths of kindness, love, and compassion. When we learn to love people through God’s eyes, we learn to love life. We’ll find ourselves surrounded by “many advisers for victory.” Family and close friends can be some of the very best!

In His Love,
Pastor Tim Burt
http://www.freshmanna.org

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April 24, 2007

Faith or Fear: Blessing or Cursing Part Six

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Psalm 138:2 (NLT) “I bow before your holy Temple as I worship. I will give thanks to your name for your unfailing love and faithfulness, because your promises are backed by all the honor of your name.”

Here in Minnesota land our snow was just about gone when we were recently blanketed with a late snow. That is sometimes hard to take when you are anxiously waiting for Spring. One up-side for me of a late snowfall is that I always think it is beautiful to run in. Everything is covered with pure virgin white snow every where you looked. The trees, especially the pines glisten white and almost every where you look, you see this breathtakingly beautiful majestic picture of fresh snow.

Because of the lateness of the season, the temperature was warm enough where the snow melted fairly fast. When it melted this time all the snow was finally gone.

What comes after that is about the opposite of what I just described. When I would be out on my run and the snow was all gone, the accumulated litter from the entire winter was everywhere. It reminds me how we feel when we lose sight of the fact that God has forgiven our sins through Jesus Christ. When we drift away from the Lord, we begin to forget His robe of righteousness that He, by His doing, chose to place upon the ones who would receive Him. That robe of righteousness covers our sins and shortcomings like a fresh blanket of snow covers the litter on the ground. It helps us not to see our own human imperfections and failings. Isa 61:10 says, “I will greatly rejoice in the LORD, my whole being shall exult in my God; for He has clothed me with the garments of salvation, He has covered me with the robe of righteousness…”

When we draw near to the Lord, it’s good to reflect on what Jesus did for us. He put this robe of righteousness upon us so that when He looked at us He would see someone that was made pure before Him. This is an awesome revelation of His love and the gift of His love. It is our challenge to become Christ-like. While we do, we will sin and blow it, but as I wrote about previously, He has made provision for sincere repentance as we go through the life long process of cleaning up the filthiness of our flesh. As we sincerely work at this, the Lord does not want us to walk through life sin conscience but instead righteousness conscience. When we always reflect on how often we blow it, we tend to get down on ourselves and give up. When we live in the spirit of thankfulness for God’s gift of righteousness, our thankfulness will actually translate into spiritual strength and desire to live more righteously.

Last week we learned what the first have of the verse 2 Cor. 7:1, “cleansing ourselves from the filthiness of the flesh” means.

As we read this again, we will look at what “cleansing ourselves from filthiness of the spirit” means. “Having therefore these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.”

“Cleansing ourselves from the filthiness of the spirit…” is cleansing our self from unbelief. Instead of thinking that God is mad at you and wants to get you, you instead see yourself in this robe given by Him that has made you His child and as white as snow forgiven of sin. This is His righteousness working in you. When you understand that this is the way God sees you, then you will “…come boldly to the throne of our gracious God. There we will receive His mercy, and we will find grace to help us when we need it.” Hebrews 4:16

Coming boldly to the throne room is coming knowing He has adorned you in His robe of righteousness to cover the “litter” of your life by Jesus shed blood. This is how you cleanse yourself of “filthiness of spirit” – by coming in faith in what He has done and does for you – not what you can do in yourself. When you get this truth and live by it, the promises of God become yours by that same faith. Now you can begin to live boldly by faith in them.

God’s covenant of promised blessing to Abraham and his future seed reaches all the way into our lives today through that faith. Galatians 3:14 says,”God redeemed us in order that the blessing given to Abraham might come to the Gentiles through Christ Jesus, so that by faith we might receive the promise of the Spirit.”

The promises of blessings to God’s children abound throughout the Bible. Your robe of righteousness allows you to access them today. Will you believe and thank God for these promises in all areas of your life? Will you learn them? Will you pray them boldly in faith believing in the face of contrary circumstance baiting you to unbelief?

What are some of those promises? Deut chapter 28 is just one place that reveals many of them! Can you take hold of them by faith?

[3] You will be blessed in your towns and in the country. (Wherever you live) [4] You will be blessed with many children and productive fields. You will be blessed with fertile herds and flocks. (God will bless you in your body and in what you put your hand to in your livelihood.) [6] You will be blessed wherever you go, both in coming and in going. [7] “The Lord will conquer your enemies when they attack you. They will attack you from one direction, but they will scatter from you in seven! [8] “The Lord will bless everything you do and will fill your storehouses with grain. The Lord your God will bless you in the land He is giving you.

God wants to supernaturally bless you. Can you believe that in faith without wavering? Today’s Fresh Manna verse reminds us why we should. “I bow before your holy Temple as I worship. I will give thanks to your name for your unfailing love and faithfulness, because your promises are backed by all the honor of your name.”

In His Love,
Pastor Tim Burt
http://www.freshmanna.org

Published by Pastor Tim Burt
Copyright© 2007
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